Ambition should feed your life, not consume it.
Stef helps ambitious people nurture their careers, and build delicious lives through her leadership, writing, and investing.
The Darling List
Ideas, recipes, resources, and frameworks worth pulling up a chair for.
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![Top-down view of a seafood platter with fresh oysters on ice, a bowl of diced vegetables, and two glasses of white wine with green olives.]()
Oysters on the half shell
Oysters and a Dirty Martini
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Goal Setting Guide
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Children's Book Series
A series with big ideas for little girls.
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![A breakfast plate with an omelet topped with two chives, a slice of bread, a cup of black coffee, and a glass of orange juice, on a white surface with natural light.]()
Savory Crepes
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![Two women in black sports bras facing each other, one touching the other's shoulder, against a plain white background.]()
Emma Grede's Rule of 1/3s
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Podcast
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![A plate of food featuring a cooked salmon fillet topped with chopped green onions, a side of cooked rice, and sautéed greens, all served on a black plate. The plate is placed on a pink surface with a fork and a napkin nearby.]()
Honey Lemon Salmon
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![A plate of chicken with sautéed mushrooms on a bed of rice, with a side of greens and sliced avocado, accompanied by a small dish of soy sauce and a bowl of rice garnished with green onions.]()
Goop Kitchen Chicken
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![A skillet filled with meatballs in a tomato sauce, garnished with fresh cilantro, placed on a table next to a glass of red wine.]()
Sausage and Peppers
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![A black bowl filled with a colorful vegetable salad, including shredded cabbage, carrots, yellow bell peppers, cucumber, cauliflower, broccoli, fresh herbs, and topped with a creamy dressing. Next to the bowl is a small square dish of additional dressing, set on a pink surface.]()
Mendo Farms Thai Mango
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Get to Know Me
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Hot Smart Rich Budgeting
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![A bowl of mixed salads with chicken, avocado, blue cheese, almonds, and rice on a wooden table with an orange napkin and fork.]()
Harvest Bowl
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ManifestHer Book
where ambition meets delicious living.
Recipes for Success is a weekly newsletter about building an ambitious career and a delicious life. Each edition pairs something I’m learning, living, or thinking about with one delicious, realistic recipe worth sharing at your table. Welcome to the table, Darling, pull up your seat!
Leading.
I build and back the people creating what comes next. As a revenue executive, I develop the teams, systems, and customer relationships that turn growth strategies into durable revenue. As an angel investor and advisor, I use capital, commercial judgment, and go-to-market experience to help exceptional founders build valuable companies.
writing.
I write to help women and girls recognize their worth and act on what is possible for their lives. My debut book, ManifestHer, is a practical guide for ambitious women learning to navigate life and career after college. My ManifestHer Minis children’s series gives girls the lessons so many women do not discover until much later: self-worth, courage, resilience, compassion, and an unwavering belief in what is possible. I’m currently working on cookbook that pairs mantras for building a good life with delicious recipes for nourishing one. Follow the process by subscribing to my weekly newsletter, Recipes for Success, below.
living.
A delicious life is the whole point. I want our home to feel like our favorite resort: a place where my family feels loved, our friends always have a seat at the table, and ordinary days become memories worth keeping. I love making a great meal, moving my body, getting lost in a book or heartfelt film, and creating traditions that grow more meaningful with time.
More than anything, I want to love my people well, live fully while I am here, and give my daughters the self-worth and inner knowing to become the fullest expression of who they are. I am building a life I never need to escape from, and I hope sharing it inspires others to build one of their own.
Ambition should feed your life, not consume it.
You know deep down that becoming the fullest expression of who you were meant to be doesn’t require sacrificing a life you love. You’re ready to make room for your ambition, your relationships, your joy, and everything else that makes life delicious.
Welcome to the Table, Darling. Pull up your seat.